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What cums after the 'F'? Hmm, gee... Ya, that's the spot!
Ask Sean.

All right kids,
In this week's adventure, we are going to talk about When it is a good time to start dating again after a breakup; What to do when he stops calling you anymore; and, Something that may or may not interest you: how to make your girl 'squirt'. All the steps, all the technique to make her climax be your symphony...

The adventure begins now!


After breaking up with someone, is there a standard amount of time that one should wait before dating again?

SEAN says:
Yes and no. It's going to be different for everyone and different with each new situation. The long and short answer is: it will just feel right to you.

Don't start dating for revenge (that won't be fair to the new guy or girl), don't start dating to hurt your ex, don't start dating to 'win'. Start dating when you feel that you've grieved beyond the loss of the relationship, and when you feel strong enough to share your awesomeness with someone new.

You should never date and mate with someone to fill a void in your life – you should always have your shit together so that you can celebrate life with someone.

When you feel you are ready, that is when you should look for someone new.

Do you have a question?


About two months ago, I met a guy in a private group on Facebook. We talked and texted many times daily. We finally met and had a wonderful weekend together...

Now he's not responding to my texts or answering my calls. Do I continue to try contacting him? or do I put him in the a-hole category?

SEAN says:
If you've already called and he hasn't called you back, then move on. Sure there is a chance that his phone died, that his computer crashed, and that he was kidnapped by North Koreans. But short of that, he's being a douche and you need to move on.

You need to have enough value about yourself to not accept bad behavior like that from anyone.

Do you have a question?


How do I make my girl squirt?

SEAN says:
Great question and one that will amp up the fun for both of you. Here are 10 Simple Steps to follow:

  • #10 – Preparation:
    Make sure that she is hydrated. Plenty of fluids are going to be leaving her, therefore plenty of fluids need to be in her to begin with. On top of that, you might want her to lie on a towel. If she squirts you want her squirting on a towel and not directly on the bed.

  • #9 – Relax:
    It is important that your girl is relaxed. If this is her first time to squirt, she should not be uptight about it – nor tense – as that would not get her anywhere.

    Additionally, a tense body rarely gets to orgasm. So make sure she's comfortable, willing, and patient. Keep her relaxed all throughout, and this should work out well for the both of you, squirt or no squirt.

  • #8 – Give her an orgasm:
    She's naked and ready for sex, so give her a good first orgasm. This step isn't necessary but this is going to help her relax too and will amp up the fun as you go.

  • #7 – Get her wet – very, very wet:
    You would be giving her vagina a strong workout, and she will get hurt when she's not well lubricated. For purposes of practice, use a water-based lubricant. When you both know how to do it, you can give her a good slobbering with your tongue. A good cunnilingus workout works wonders for a girl.

  • #6 – Get her ready for another orgasm:
    Insert a well-lubricated finger into her vagina, and at the same time work on her clitoris. A natural position would be to finger her, palms up and pressed on her clit. Start with an in and out motion with frequent flicks to the vaginal walls. Work her up until she almost near an orgasm.

  • #5 – Find her G-spot:
    If you still don't know where her G-spot is, this is the time to find it...

    With a finger, and your hand palms up, feel for a slight bump, about the size of a walnut located about two inches inside the vagina. It should be almost directly under the clitoris. It will have a different texture and consistency. For some girls, it should be slightly rougher but in most instances, it is more 'squishy'. Get to know that bump intimately, as it is a very important trigger for your sexual relationship.

    Really, for a guy, this is the gold mine. This is the ultimate trigger to her sexual happiness. If you know where it is and you know how to use it, you will be a very happy man – and she, a very satisfied woman!

  • #4 – Two fingers palms up:
    When she's ready for more, insert two fingers into her vagina, with the hand's palm up. With the thumb or the open palm, press on her clitoris, and continue to finger her using an in-and-out motion. This is the part where it is important that she is well lubricated.

  • #3 – Come hither:
    With two fingers deep into her vagina, flick the G-spot in a 'come hither' manner. Try to make it feel like you're tickling her or calling her to come 'home'.

    But don't press too hard on the G-spot. You want her to squirt, but not to come just yet. This might take some time to do, but keep on motioning her to 'come hither'. Be patient about this, as it might take some time... Some girls squirt almost immediately, others may take 20 to 30 minutes.

    No hurry, be gentle. Even if she's bucking and screaming while she asks you to do other things. The slow tickling motion will result in a slow buildup and an even stronger orgasm. Continuing in this motion will make her come, sooner or later, and there is no need to hurry up the process.

  • #2 – The U-spot:
    When she is ready to come (or when you start to get tired), you can then use your two fingers separately: one would be on the top of the G-spot and the other below it – massaging the G-spot with firm pressure. Continuing the pressure on the clit, you should also be rubbing on the upper entrance of the vagina.

    There is a slight bump on that area called the U-spot. Pressing on the U-spot will help push her over the edge.

  • And finally, #1 – Push and bear:
    With all that foreplay, erotic stimulation, and genital massaging, your girl should orgasm hard. At that point, she will also be feeling as if she is going to 'pee'. It is when she is at this point of orgasm that she bears out on the pressure and simply lets go. Letting go at the same time, as she orgasms, will force the prostatic fluids out.

    This is what squirting is all about.

After that, gents, towel off and take a bow. Expect to see some huge appreciation coming your way.

That's all for this week, kids! To be continued...

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