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ask sean: mars, venus, and threesomes
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DATING AND RELATIONSHIP ADVICE (Mature content. 18yrs+)



Mars, Venus, and Threesomes.
Ask Sean.


Hey kids! On this week's exciting episode of Ask Sean, we delve into some of the reasons why Guys and Girls have so much trouble understanding each other – the whole Mars versus Venus thing.

Next, we have a little discussion about a topic I'm sure 'none' of you are interested in: Threesomes. I don't even know why I put it in here but you know what? Just skip that one. You aren't interested and my apologies for leaving it in this week. (wink!)

And finally, we'll yap a bit about a sexual aid to help make your Warrior even more powerful. A little extra fun when you're having your fun.

Anyway Kids, it's time to savour this week's adventure. Have at er'...


MARS & VENUS

DON'T GET MEN asks:
I don't understand men? I don't understand people. Why do men ask you what's wrong? Why do men think it's okay to just not talk to you? Why do people ask you to talk to them then not hear what you are saying?

SEAN says:
Men talk differently than women. Guys talk literally; girls talk in intentions. A guy means what he says, a girl wonders why it was said. Because girls don't speak literally, guys have trouble reading them. It's usually not until tears or screaming comes to be that a guy has any clue that a girl is in any distress at all. He doesn't get body language, situational awareness, or even a girl's perspective well enough to know when she is hurt.

Keep in mind that back in more primitive times, the men were off hunting and trying to bring back the bacon to his cave family. His needs to communicate were about where the food was (this is why men are better at map reading than women) and knowing how to shut up so as not to scare that food away. Women were usually back at the cave and raising the babies. They needed to know how to read the body language of their babies so as to know when they were hungry or sick or had just loaded their fur diapers with cave-baby poop. Women also were gathered together and became more socially astute because they had people to talk to through the day. So in general, guys are not usually as socially aware as women are and there is a bridge between how men and women communicate.


Do you have a question?


THREESOMES

WANTING A THREESOME asks:
If you do want to have a threesome, with whom should you have it? How should you go about doing it, and most important, how can you ensure that it will be a good experience?

SEAN says:
Threesomes can be great fun but can also be very destructive to a relationship. Especially if that relationship is on the rocks to begin with. If your relationship isn't 100%, a threesome is not going to fix it. But if things are going swimmingly, here are some steps to help make it work out great for everyone involved:

  • Spend time talking about what you want to do in a threesome. Is this about the guy watching while the girls play? Is he going to be playing with both girls? Is this going to be two guys and a girl? What configurations are happening then? Who gets the money shot at the end? Figure in micro details so there is no confusion or misunderstandings;
  • Be very specific on what is allowed to happen. Don't think that you can wing it and it will work out. Jealousy is a huge factor in why threesomes destroy relationships. So be clear ahead of time on what is allowed to happen and what is an absolute no go;
  • After all is said and done, no contact should be happening with the third person without your Significant Other knowing or being involved;
  • If one or the other in the couple is not feeling 100% about the situation, even once clothes are off, then stop everything and walk away. All participants need to feel no pressure and completely comfortable with the idea;
  • Remember that the two of you are going to be sharing this as an experience to savour together. It can bring you closer or destroy you, so make sure you are there to have fun;
  • Never bring up the situation afterwards in a negative context to your Significant Other. An argument that involves the words ‘Ya, well the other girl was better than you' is never going to heal 100%;
  • Make sure both of you agree on who the third person is going to be;
  • Make sure that during the act, that you pay as much, if not more, attention on your Significant Other; and,
  • I've already said it, but the main thing you want to make sure never happens is jealousy.

Now as far as finding the third person, you can find people anywhere who want to play. Craigslist, someone at the club, Starbucks, wherever. As a couple, you should just chat with the prospective applicant and see whether everyone clicks. Once you have a good rapport, ask them if they want to join you for some slap and tickle.

After that, make sure condoms are used and get yo freak on...


Do you have a question?


WARRIOR POWER

JUST WONDERING asks:
Cock Rings... Do they work?

SEAN says:
Yup! Cock Rings do a few things. They help keep blood inside a guy's junk, desensitizes him a bit so he can last longer (should that be an issue), and makes the orgasms more intense. There are many kinds, from the plain simple rings to the vibrating kind that can add some pleasure to his willing participant.

Should you have any interest in trying them out, check out our newest sponsor (see ad on the left). And tell them Sean from SayItCanada sent you!

That's all this week, kids. To be continued...

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COMMENTS

On SUNDAY, MARCH 25, 2013 at 12:01am EST from TORONTO, ON

SL21 But there's nothing better than cave-baby poop! LOL!

 

MATURE CONTENT 18yrs +

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